5 Surprising Truths About Speech Blockages
From a Coach Who Beat Them – Ankush Pare Method
🔹 Introduction: The Silent Search for a Solution (Focus Keyword Used)
Speech blockages are one of the most frustrating problems a person can face while speaking. If you suffer from speech blocks or stammering, you already know the endless cycle—searching online, watching videos, reading blogs, and still feeling stuck. Most advice around speech blocks sounds repetitive and shallow: “Relax,” “Breathe,” “Slow down.”
But speech blocks don’t disappear with motivation alone.
This blog is based on the real-world experience and coaching framework of Ankush Pare, who personally overcame severe speech blocks and later helped thousands of adults do the same. This is not theory. This is not textbook speech therapy. This is a practical, experience-based system designed to break speech blocks at their root.
🔹 Truth #1: You Are Misunderstanding Speech Blocks
Most people believe speech blocks happen on the entire word.
This belief itself strengthens the block.
▶ The Real Truth
Speech blocks occur only on the first sound, not the full word.
For example, if you block on the word “Kolkata,” the actual block is on “K”, not “olkata.” Once the first sound releases, the rest of the word flows automatically.
▶ Why This Matters
When you think the entire word is blocked, fear multiplies.
When you realize it’s only one sound, control returns.
▶ Speech Blocks Are Situational, Not Permanent
Ask yourself:
Do you block when you speak alone?
Do you block while singing?
Do you block while talking to yourself?
Most people don’t.
This proves speech blocks are context-based conditioned responses, not a physical defect.
▶ Speech Blocks Are an Experience Deficit
Avoiding words may give short-term relief, but long-term damage.
Each time you:
Replace a word
Change a sentence
Stay silent
You deny your brain successful speaking experience.
No experience = No speech memory = More speech blocks.
▶ Speech Blocks Are Learned Habits
You were not born with them.
They developed over time through:
Fear
Avoidance
Repetition of failure
And anything learned can be unlearned.
🔹 Truth #2: Speech Blocks Are a Muscle-Freezing Problem
Speech blocks are not only mental.
They are physical muscle locks.
During a block:
Lips freeze
Tongue stiffens
Jaw locks
Motivation doesn’t unlock muscles.
Practice does.
▶ Vowel & Consonant Activation Practice
This is the most ignored yet most powerful foundation.
Practice:
Vowels: A, Aa, E, I, O, U
Consonants: One by one, slowly
Use:
A mirror
Or phone camera
Observe how your mouth moves.
✔ Builds speech muscle memory
✔ Reduces physical freeze
✔ Can be done silently in public
This does not instantly cure speech blocks, but without this base, nothing works long-term.
🔹 Truth #3: Hard Speech Blocks Need the M2E2 Technique
Some words feel impossible.
These are hard speech blocks.
Ankush Pare’s M2E2 framework breaks resistance layer by layer.
▶ M2E2 Explained
M – Mind
Mentally repeat the word until it feels emotionally neutral.
M – Muscle
Practice mouth movements silently in front of a mirror.
E – Ear
Say the word aloud privately in different tones and speeds.
E – Eyes
Say the word in front of people—family → friends → strangers.
When your eyes see people and your ears hear success, the brain rewires fear.
🔹 Truth #4: First-Word Speech Blocks Are an Inertia Issue
Many people speak fluently after the first word.
That’s not coincidence.
That’s momentum.
▶ Law of Inertia Applied to Speech Blocks
Motion helps speech start.
Technique 1: Synchronized Momentum
Say the first word with:
Head nod
Smile
Eyebrow raise
Hand gesture
Technique 2: Pre-emptive Momentum
Create motion first:
Tap fingers twice
Speak on the third tap
You ride movement instead of forcing speech.
🔹 Truth #5: Avoidance Is the Real Cause of Long-Term Speech Blocks
Speech blocks survive because of hiding.
Avoiding feared words tells your brain:
“This word is dangerous.”
▶ Rule 1: Force the Words
Deliberately use your feared words—even when unnecessary.
This destroys fear faster than safe practice.
▶ Rule 2: Seek the Situation
Meetings, calls, introductions are not threats.
They are training environments.
As Ankush Pare clearly states:
“Speech blocks are not for a lifetime.
They stay only as long as you avoid them.”
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